So I have to apologize for not writing for a long while. I do this a lot. Things happen, life and such. But also there have been tons and tons of more things that have happened. I have started helping people talk to loved ones and get questions answered or closure. The thing I have struggled with is should I share these or should they stay private? Obviously I wouldn't include names of individuals for that reason, but I just don't know if it would be worth anything to add these stories. Who would know if these claims were legitimate or not. The key parts of each story are only significant to the individuals in which they happened to. An example of one, if my friend who was letting me talk to his grandfather with him just to help me learn and grow. I asked my friend if "rabbit's foot" had any meaning to him. He laughed and was put more at ease and told me a story that was between he and his grandfather and that he had not even told his sister or his parents all those years.
Another one I was my friend at the time who was also helping me, She wanted to know about the night her aunt died. There were things about her passing that didn't add up. The family had a theory, but it was officially ruled an accident. Shortly into the session, I stopped, looked up and asked my friend if her aunt had killed herself. We all got really quiet and she looked at me and said that had been what they had suspected but it had been ruled an accidental overdose. This story would have been a good one to use, because the aunt was in such a better place and since the death was several several years prior she had a lot more time to heal, which is very different from the people I usually converse with. I usually speak with loved ones who have been gone less than 5 years. The aunt had so much free will that she was really refusing to give actual details. She did not want to return to that place of darkness she was once at. She answered my friend's questions, but very limitedly (if that's even a word) because she really had no desire to relive/remember. She only gave me enough in visions of the location she had done it and her frame of mind beforehand.
This is why I have not written anything. I am just not sure what to share, what might help someone who is needing answers or what would do more harm than good and leave so much room for a sceptic. It is very emotional for the individuals involved, but what does that do for my readers? You tell me. Should I share my "conversations" or should I leave them out? Leave me a comment of your opinion. Have a great night and keep asking!
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